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5 Important Questions To Ask Before Getting Into A Relationship



Questions to ask before getting into a relationship with anyone

No matter how desperate for a relationship you are, there are important questions to ask before agreeing to a relationship with anyone.

This is basically due diligence. You do not want to begin something you would regret later when you could have avoided it totally.
We wish we could say it would, but asking these questions won’t automatically rule out every possibility of a heartbreak or some other unpleasant turn of event. Regardless, you can be satisfied knowing you did your part by asking relevant questions and left nothing to chance.
So here goes, 5 important questions to ask before dating anyone:

1. Why me?

Whether it’s a guy that’s being asked out or a woman, people always want to know what’s special about them; the thing that made you choose them out from the crawling mass of humans alive.
Three things to never do when you catch a partner cheatingplayIf someone shows interest in you, it’s not wrong to ask “why do you like me?” (BET)

So if someone shows interest in you, it’s not wrong to ask “why do you like me?
“why are you attracted to me?
“what is it about me that made you ask me out?” And other similar questions.
The answer given to this types of question is what decides whether they have been paying any attention to you at all, or that they’ve not even noticed a single thing about you. That’s what decides whether they want you just for a shallow reason or if their feelings run deep.

2. Ask what they want in a relationship

This is a no-brainer. You don’t want to be in a relationship that’s like a dark room. In a black, lightless room, your steps are cautious, uncertain and dangerous because you could trip on something and hurt yourself.
4 ways to save your relationship after a partner cheatsplayYou are meant to know exactly what you are getting into in a relationship. So, ask. (Video Blocks)

Relationships are not meant to be dark rooms, you are meant to know exactly what you are getting into, or at least have an idea of it and this is why this question is important.

3. Ask about past relationships

You need to know if they were cheated on or cheated in their last relationship, which may be an indication of trust issues that may have developed. You need to know if they dated someone who was abusive or too submissive.
Ask questions to gauge their temperament and to see if they treated those exes in a manner indicative of an emotional or physical abuser.
What to do when you have an inappropriate attraction?playAsk also about past relationships and their roles in them. (Shutterstock)
Ask if perhaps this is their first ever relationship. Just ask to avoid unpleasant surprises later on.

4. What’s your relationship with God?

So around these parts where religion is a big deal and many people crave partners that are God fearing, it would be absurd to not ask what his or her outlook of God and religious things is.
You’d be deluded to ignore that religious sentiments still affect [potential] relationships and marriages.

5. What are you passionate about?

This helps you know the kind of man or woman they are; and how invested in themselves and the future they are.
This question is closely linked to the question of goals and plans. You need to be sure that whoever you are thinking of dating has his head wisely wrapped around these things.
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Ike Ani is a Freelance writer whose quest constantly is to relate happenings around the world to human daily living. He's also a song writer and singer, Acoustic Guitarist, and Teacher.

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L. A Prisoners Infect Themselves With Coronavirus To Get Early Release (VIDEO)




A group of silly L.A area prison inmates were very eager to contract the dreaded coronavirus .

They attempted this because they believed that would trigger their ticket out of prison.

According to the L.A. County Sheriff Alex Villanueva who made the startling revelation Monday, said about twenty-four (24) inmates at the Pitchess Detention Center in Castaic attempted (and somewhat succeeded, apparently) to infect themselves way back in mid-April 2020.

The Sheriff revealed that their department saw an increase in spike in confirmed cases out of nowhere.

He said that when they investigated, they found a high number of inmates living in one block of the prison appeared to be deliberately trying to infect each other with COVID-19 any way they could from behind bars.

When Alex Villanueva played the surveillance footages he and his team combed through carefully , and it showed several inmates hanging out in a common area and passing around what Alex described as a hot cup of water, as well as one face mask they’d each put on all in hopes of getting sympathy from a judge to spring them from the facility and let them go home.

But it turns out, their little ploy worked but, only halfway.

Villanueva reported that 21 of the inmates (out of 50 in the block) caught the ‘Coronavirus.

“What they won’t catch is a break” said the Sheriff.

Watch the Video HERE

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COVID-19 LOCKDOWN: 12 Year Old Albino Girl Suffers Eye Problems After Hawking Veggies In Abuja (PHOTOS)




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The Facebook post stated that the little girl was asked to hawk the veggies by her aunt whom she lives with.

Below are the Screenshots of the Facebook post:

This sad news has sparked an outrage by well meaning individuals who spoke against such cruelty and insensitivity of the said girl’s aunt.

what do you think of this? Drop your comments below.

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“Buhari is Made In London” – Reno Omokri Blasts Presidency On Nigerian Made Products

The Buhari administration has been known for enforcing the Nigerian people to patronize Nigerian made goods though without much strategy to make life easier while this transition to economic growth is enforced.




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The Buhari administration has been known for enforcing the Nigerian people to patronize Nigerian made goods though without much strategy to make life easier while this transition to economic growth is enforced. Many Nigerians have tagged it a harsh move that is insensitive and inhumane but moreso, Reno Omokri has singled out signals of hypocrisy in the President of Nigeria by outlining certain traits of family moves of the President that shows that he(Buhari) as the No.1 citizen has no regards for anything made in Nigeria but yet wants other Nigerians to embrace Nigerian made goods.

Reno Omokri ‘s tweet reads:

His kids schooled in England. His wife just returned from a 3 month UK stay. His daughter gave birth to his grandchild in Spain (made in Spain), yet
, who is London, wants us to patronise made in Nigeria!

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