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“How To Know The Wrong Partner” – By Cynthia Offor

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When you’re with the wrong partner,you will always see the signs but maybe too arrogant to see it. Maybe you do but you keep deceiving yourself that they will change. Well,you have to stop deceiving yourself anyway.
When you’re with the wrong partner,they will always see you as a nag anytime you try to communicate with them and if you decide not to,they will say you’re hiding something from them. Try to know what they are upto,they will say you’re too sticky or invading their privacy,try not to,they will say you don’t care.
Try to reason out something with them,they will say you’re disrespectful and decide to keep to yourself,they will say you’re pushing them away. Nothing you do excites or impresses them. They will keep complaining and seeing faults in all you do. They will keep seeing the negative. You should have to stop dating left and date right. 
It’s surprising how such partner can hang out with the friends,laugh and play together. Chat with the colleagues at work and jump around in church. It’s funny how that partner will talk to other people and never get tirrd. Pay attention to other peoples problems,understand and even prefer solutions to them happily. 
It’s simply amazing how other people’s problems bother them and how fast they are willing to help but when it comes to you,it becomes another story. They become cold to their you. So uninteresting,dull and dump. They wouldn’t make such jokes they do make outside with you nor even jump around you or listen to you. No matter how hard you try to make them have such moments with you,they won’t. 
The only conversation they would have with you is the normal ” how are you doing? Have you eaten?”as if you were created for food only.
No matter how hard you try to put up with a wrong partner,you would surely get weary and fed up. They suck the life out of you and makes you feel you don’t deserve the best but you do. Nothing feels bad than having a partner yet you feel lonely and depressed. You have to refuse to go through life with such a burden. You deserve to be happy too and around those that makes you happy. 
Relationship is meant to bring joy not sorrow. Peace not war. You have to enjoy your life to the fullest. Walk away from negative people because they can block your success and frustrate you too. Refuse to settle for less when you know you deserve more and the best. 
Written By: Cynthia  Offor Cynthia  Offor  is a relationship  coach/expert who shares her experiences and link it to real life to help people  grow and live healthy  emotional lives.   

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L. A Prisoners Infect Themselves With Coronavirus To Get Early Release (VIDEO)

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A group of silly L.A area prison inmates were very eager to contract the dreaded coronavirus .

They attempted this because they believed that would trigger their ticket out of prison.

According to the L.A. County Sheriff Alex Villanueva who made the startling revelation Monday, said about twenty-four (24) inmates at the Pitchess Detention Center in Castaic attempted (and somewhat succeeded, apparently) to infect themselves way back in mid-April 2020.

The Sheriff revealed that their department saw an increase in spike in confirmed cases out of nowhere.

He said that when they investigated, they found a high number of inmates living in one block of the prison appeared to be deliberately trying to infect each other with COVID-19 any way they could from behind bars.

When Alex Villanueva played the surveillance footages he and his team combed through carefully , and it showed several inmates hanging out in a common area and passing around what Alex described as a hot cup of water, as well as one face mask they’d each put on all in hopes of getting sympathy from a judge to spring them from the facility and let them go home.

But it turns out, their little ploy worked but, only halfway.

Villanueva reported that 21 of the inmates (out of 50 in the block) caught the ‘Coronavirus.

“What they won’t catch is a break” said the Sheriff.

Watch the Video HERE

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COVID-19 LOCKDOWN: 12 Year Old Albino Girl Suffers Eye Problems After Hawking Veggies In Abuja (PHOTOS)

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A very sad Facebook post greeted Nigerians from Abuja showing a 12 year old Albino Girl Grace, who started developing sight problems after Hawking Veggies under the scorching sun in Abuja.

The Facebook post stated that the little girl was asked to hawk the veggies by her aunt whom she lives with.

Below are the Screenshots of the Facebook post:

This sad news has sparked an outrage by well meaning individuals who spoke against such cruelty and insensitivity of the said girl’s aunt.

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“Buhari is Made In London” – Reno Omokri Blasts Presidency On Nigerian Made Products

The Buhari administration has been known for enforcing the Nigerian people to patronize Nigerian made goods though without much strategy to make life easier while this transition to economic growth is enforced.

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The Buhari administration has been known for enforcing the Nigerian people to patronize Nigerian made goods though without much strategy to make life easier while this transition to economic growth is enforced. Many Nigerians have tagged it a harsh move that is insensitive and inhumane but moreso, Reno Omokri has singled out signals of hypocrisy in the President of Nigeria by outlining certain traits of family moves of the President that shows that he(Buhari) as the No.1 citizen has no regards for anything made in Nigeria but yet wants other Nigerians to embrace Nigerian made goods.

Reno Omokri ‘s tweet reads:

His kids schooled in England. His wife just returned from a 3 month UK stay. His daughter gave birth to his grandchild in Spain (made in Spain), yet
@MBuhari
, who is London, wants us to patronise made in Nigeria!

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