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3 Reasons why Nigerian men are becoming Violent on Women

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It’s no longer news that married Nigerian men are now turning their wives to punching bags for whatsoever flimsy excuses they have that has militated the beating of their wives. In this article, I will be pointing out some of the core reasons why this madness is trending currently. Recently we heard of famous Mercy Aigbe and others whose husbands have decided to see as fellow men for a fist fight. This is absolute madness. Read on.

    A real man wouldn’t lay a finger on a woman for if it was not for a woman, he wouldn’t be here on earth. A man with this understanding will always see reasons to value the woman system and nature emotionally and physically but the problem currently is that Nigerian men are becoming only sexually attracted to women and hence see them as sex toys instead of help meet for their life visions and missions. A man who searched properly for a woman that will be of help to his visions will always value her in her excellence and errors and will never on any day think of beating her for any reason.

    Below are three (3) reasons I have mapped out that has led to all home violence trending in Nigeria right now;

1. Most Nigerian men Don’t get prepared for marriage beforehand:
 
So many men in Nigeria think that once they have a job and a house, then a wife becomes a necessity to add to their achievement but this is the point where they miss it because marriage is not an achievement but a union for the sole aim of getting helped by a woman that will help and support you based on your visions, missions and goals in life. So what drove you to marry the woman who is your wife today? Think again and make sure this foundational idea is handled.

2. Nigerian men these days are becoming sexually attracted to women only:
 
The reason behind the attraction of a man to a woman matters a lot in life cause that will be the inspiration/drive in the ups and downs along the lane of marriage. But when the reason of attraction is strictly sexual, there will always be a problem because a wife is not supposed to be treated like some whore on the street. She’s a wife not a slave, she’s a helper not a punching bag…etc

3. Most Nigerian men were never taught well at Home while growing up:
 
Most Nigerian parents have failed the male gender in terms of training them to understanding that man and woman are not the same in strength and stature and as such, they should not dare touch any woman in the name of beating them. When to teach a man not to be violent against women is when they are little. Charity they say begins at home.  If parents currently fail to train their sons well, the next generation will have men killing women everyday with no reason.

It is high time Nigerian men stand and take their place in the circle of sanity at all times as they are the head of their homes and not the devourer of their homes. Men, take your place of being a good husband, friend and father to your family.

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Ike Ani is a Freelance writer whose quest constantly is to relate happenings around the world to human daily living. He's also a song writer and singer, Acoustic Guitarist, and Teacher.

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L. A Prisoners Infect Themselves With Coronavirus To Get Early Release (VIDEO)

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A group of silly L.A area prison inmates were very eager to contract the dreaded coronavirus .

They attempted this because they believed that would trigger their ticket out of prison.

According to the L.A. County Sheriff Alex Villanueva who made the startling revelation Monday, said about twenty-four (24) inmates at the Pitchess Detention Center in Castaic attempted (and somewhat succeeded, apparently) to infect themselves way back in mid-April 2020.

The Sheriff revealed that their department saw an increase in spike in confirmed cases out of nowhere.

He said that when they investigated, they found a high number of inmates living in one block of the prison appeared to be deliberately trying to infect each other with COVID-19 any way they could from behind bars.

When Alex Villanueva played the surveillance footages he and his team combed through carefully , and it showed several inmates hanging out in a common area and passing around what Alex described as a hot cup of water, as well as one face mask they’d each put on all in hopes of getting sympathy from a judge to spring them from the facility and let them go home.

But it turns out, their little ploy worked but, only halfway.

Villanueva reported that 21 of the inmates (out of 50 in the block) caught the ‘Coronavirus.

“What they won’t catch is a break” said the Sheriff.

Watch the Video HERE

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COVID-19 LOCKDOWN: 12 Year Old Albino Girl Suffers Eye Problems After Hawking Veggies In Abuja (PHOTOS)

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A very sad Facebook post greeted Nigerians from Abuja showing a 12 year old Albino Girl Grace, who started developing sight problems after Hawking Veggies under the scorching sun in Abuja.

The Facebook post stated that the little girl was asked to hawk the veggies by her aunt whom she lives with.

Below are the Screenshots of the Facebook post:

This sad news has sparked an outrage by well meaning individuals who spoke against such cruelty and insensitivity of the said girl’s aunt.

what do you think of this? Drop your comments below.

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“Buhari is Made In London” – Reno Omokri Blasts Presidency On Nigerian Made Products

The Buhari administration has been known for enforcing the Nigerian people to patronize Nigerian made goods though without much strategy to make life easier while this transition to economic growth is enforced.

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The Buhari administration has been known for enforcing the Nigerian people to patronize Nigerian made goods though without much strategy to make life easier while this transition to economic growth is enforced. Many Nigerians have tagged it a harsh move that is insensitive and inhumane but moreso, Reno Omokri has singled out signals of hypocrisy in the President of Nigeria by outlining certain traits of family moves of the President that shows that he(Buhari) as the No.1 citizen has no regards for anything made in Nigeria but yet wants other Nigerians to embrace Nigerian made goods.

Reno Omokri ‘s tweet reads:

His kids schooled in England. His wife just returned from a 3 month UK stay. His daughter gave birth to his grandchild in Spain (made in Spain), yet
@MBuhari
, who is London, wants us to patronise made in Nigeria!

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